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Why Meditate? Reduce Stress, Increase Focus, and Be Nicer to Yourself and Others!

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“When we’re in tune with our inner wealth ­– the qualities of compassion, contentment, patience, and so on – it’s endless, it’s timeless. Those are qualities that we’re all born with. Everybody. The whole process of meditation is all about trying to dig into this inner wealth, to access it.”   – Trinley Thaye Dorje

Based on my work with clients, benefits of meditation include:

  • A self-awareness and awareness of the environment around you
  • A calmer, more grounded executive presence
  • Improved ability to regulate emotions, navigate difficult situations, and manage conflict
  • Gains in creativity and innovative thinking
  • Deeper active listening skills (being more present and patient)
  • More compassionate towards others and less critical of one’s self
  • Improved concentration and clarity of focus
  • Enhanced perspective (the ability to see different sides and points of view)
  • Stronger, richer, and more fulfilling relationships

What Is Meditation? Meditation is the practice of setting aside quiet time to calm our mind and relax our whole body by focusing on our breath and/or an intention. During meditation, we learn to let our thoughts flow, without analyzing them, obsessing over them, or striving to hold onto them.

What is Mindfulness? While the term “mindfulness” has become somewhat trendy, meditating is an ancient ritual dating back 5,000 years. Ancient people used meditation as a form of spiritual practice that enabled them to connect to their divine energy. In today’s world where things move at the speed of light, connecting to your own energy can be as simple as sitting still in a quiet place for five minutes and focusing on your breath. In fact, numerous research studies have shown that a regular meditation practice will lead to a positive impact on the body.

The Mind-Body Connection Routine stressors in the workplace – an abrasive email, a contentious conversation, a high-stakes meeting – feel as real and as threatening to us today as a potential attack from a saber tooth tiger did thousands of years ago. Whether it’s a tiger or an angry colleague, we have basically the same physiological response – that is, we get triggered, stressed, and go into a “fight or flight mode.”

To better understand how meditation positively affects your physiology and helps manage your triggers, consider these scientific findings:

Brain – The amygdala, an almond-shaped structure in the brain, is responsible for handling our emotions. When we become triggered, we experience an “amygdala hijack.” Blood literally leaves our brain and moves towards our limbs, so we can either fight or flee. This also negatively impacts our memory and cognitive function.

A regular meditation practice will improve your mental clarity and reduce the intensity and recovery time of stressful emotional triggers.

Heart – When we become triggered, the stress hormone cortisol is released, making us more susceptible to heart attack, stroke, and hypertension.

A regular meditation practice will help you manage stress and its harmful effects by reducing cortisol levels in the bloodstream. This leads to slowing your heart rate and lowering your blood pressure, helping you control your breathing and remain calm.

Immune System – A strong immune system is critical to maintaining overall health. Antibodies, which fight bacteria and viruses, are critical to a strong immune system.

Meditation has been shown to boost activity in the areas of the brain that command the body’s immune system, making it work more effectively. Studies have also shown that meditation boosts antibodies in the blood.

Give Meditation a Chance! Consider signing up for a 28 day meditation challenge that starts September 22 by clicking here or see Amazon for my recent book Show Up as Your Best Self: Mindful Leaders, Meditation, & More!

Be Generous, Be Joyful, Make a Difference, and Get Back to Work!

Our family met Ari Weinzweig on a recent visit to University of Michigan while we were eating at his restaurant (he was the water boy, refilling our glasses!). Humble, approachable, and kind – we had no idea that Ari was the founding partner, along with Paul Saginaw, of Zingerman’s Community of Businesses with + 600 employees. He even handed my son his business card and offered to help him if he needed anything. I was inspired by Ari’s focus on community values, artistic creative expression, prolific writings, and business success.

Check out two inspiring videos by clicking on the links below to learn more about Zingerman’s philosophy on business and community leadership, generosity, joy, and making a difference

Key themes

  • While vision, values, equality, customer service, marketing, and making money are all important, they believe that what we believe makes a big difference
  • An organization’s purpose is to serve the people who are part of it – not the other way around
  • Being a good human being is good business
  • Generosity is self-perpetuating
  • Little things matter the most
  • It is a life long challenge to manage ourselves effectively
  • Work hard at learning

How Do You Serve?

I slept and dreamt that life was joy.

I awoke and saw that life was service.

I acted and behold, service was joy.

—Rabindranath Tagore

Mindful Leaders: What You Can Learn from Basketball (and Phil Jackson)!

In this inspiring Super Soul conversation with Oprah, Phil Jackson, called the Zen Master and greatest basketball coach of all time, shares his journey as a seeker and how he used his background in Christian mysticism, Native American Rituals, and Zen Meditation as guiding principles for his work as a coach.

What resonated!

  • Spirituality means trusting in one’s own intuition and having the courage to lead from a place of authenticity. That is, leading from the inside out versus following someone else’s leadership rules.
  • Spirituality is also about esprit de corps, the spirit among a connected group of people, the idea that we’re in this together.
  • While it takes the right mix of talent, creativity, intelligence, toughness, and luck to win a championship, LOVE is the most essential. He talks about the circle of love – that everyone needs to sacrifice and give a little more of themselves in the process of bonding and becoming a unit.
  • Leadership is about making everyone else a little better, but a leader has to create the space for others to step in and be bigger than themselves (case in point, Michael Jordan’s acceptance of this role).
  • His admiration of Pema Chödrön’s concept: “What you do for yourself, any gesture of kindness, gentleness, honestly, and clear seeing toward yourself, will effect how you see the world” and use of it as a key building block in his work as a coach.
  • In addition to building physical strength, he stressed the importance of building mental strength through mindfulness and meditation –one breath, one mind.
  • How morning meditation allows him to start the day at peace and with a quiet mind – and that he is always capable of coming back to that during the day.
  • His philosophy of giving up control to get control, trusting in the moment, and living in compassion.

Don’t miss out – check out Phil Jackson’s SuperSoul podcast with Oprah or his book: Eleven Rings: The Soul of Success on Amazon!

Altered Traits! An Inspiring Read for Mindful Leaders!

I highly recommend Altered Traits: Science Reveals How Much Meditation Changes your Mind, Brain, and Body written by two leading PhD scientists Richard Davidson and Daniel Goleman.

Davidson and Goleman discuss their own experiences as lifelong meditators, their travels to ashrams and retreats all over the globe, and their meetings with yogis and monks – including the Dalai Lama. A must read for anyone interested in learning how meditation affects the body physically, mentally, and spiritually.

In addition to talking about how meditation leads to altered traits (what’s an altered trait? read on!), they review scientific studies done on meditation over the last fifty years, ancient practices of meditation, how the West tried to replicate them, the beginning steps to becoming an advanced meditator, and what deep meditation is.

Highlights:

  • Meditation leads to altered traits
  • Altered traits are traits that remain after meditation sessions have ended and endure for the long term versus short-term, Another way of saying this is, beyond the pleasant states meditation can produce, the real payoffs are the lasting personality traits that can result.
  • 8 minutes is enough to reap short term changes to the brain
  • After two weeks of meditation practice, participants began to see changes: less reaction to stress, better focus, less mind wandering, improved memory, more compassion, and less bodily inflammation.
  • Long-term meditators (those with 1,000 hours of meditation) benefited from the following altered traits: significant prefrontal cortex development; significantly less stressful cortisol resulting in less inflammation and decreased reaction to stress; greater sustained and selective attention; and slower breath and metabolic rates

Enjoy and happy meditating!